How Divorce Laws Hurt You, even if you’re not interested.

Arizona law likes to taunt people that are not currently interested in a divorce.  Whether your single, recently married or are currently in a happy marriage, Arizona doesn’t care; you have to stay in tune with divorce laws even, if you think it doesn’t matter.  And here’s why: Diclaimer Deed. Many spouses don’t know about […]

The Difficult Spouse? I can kick them out?

Lawyers secret: Court’s are becoming less tolerant of removing a spouse from his or her home. There are two legal devices to remove your spouse from the marital home. The first of these options is bringing a motion for exclusive possession. The motion is the least aggressive legal maneuver a spouse can take, when attempting […]

Holding the line on Social Security Benefits

Illinois appellate courts continue to hold the line on how to treat Social Security Benefits paid to a dependent child.  Continuing a line of caselaw (common-law), a new case, In re the Marriage of Mitter held fast by noting that Social Security benefits are earned (much like other forms of income).  Therefore, if a dependent […]

What kind of divorce lawyer do you want?

What kind of lawyer should I hire? (avoid the pitbull). Many spouses are faced with the decision as to what “kind” of lawyer to hire. Friends and family will typically offer referrals or what lawyer’s call “armchair” advice. Every spouse will receive from one source or another the encouragement to hire a “pit bull” lawyer. […]

Does your divorce lawyer have the heart?

If your superman seems to be lacking the “super” part, you may have joined the same club as thousands of other spouses with the wrong lawyer. Nearly a third of my clientele came to me after being disappointed with the lackluster approach of their prior attorney. Why are some lawyers just not cut for the […]

What makes a great divorce lawyer?

While having been a divorce and custody lawyer for a number of years, I’m pretty certain that a good number of people while looking for a lawyer, wonder what qualities make for a good divorce or custody lawyer.  I don’t think that I have an all exhaustive list of what differentiates the good from the […]

Signs that your husband wants a divorce.

Over the years, I have met with men and women seeking, in contemplation, or in the midst of a divorce. One thing is always true. Women are better at communicating with their spouse about wanting a divorce. Men are far less skilled or tactful about approaching the issue with their wives. Rather, they hide, avoid, […]